When we criticize a friend, we are judging the merits and faults of something they  have said or done.  Criticism can correct another person in a godly way if the criticism is given with that intent and in that spirit.

Winston Churchill was quoted as saying the following: “Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necesary.  It fulfills the same function as pain in the human body.  It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.”

The Reverend Charles Stanley said, “Too many Christians have a commitment of convenience.  They’ll stay faithful as long as it’s safe and doesn’t involve risk, rejection, or criticism.”

Our speech should be edifying, and our criticism truthful and loving, just as Jesus was in criticizing the Pharisees’ hypocrisy.  Let us encourage one another, and remember the words of Proverbs 27:6: “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.”

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